Win Back Someone With These Rules Of Thumb

If you’ve ever been through a break up, you know how painful and emotionally trying it can be.  Have you ever stayed up all night tossing and turning completely unable to sleep because you couldn’t get him or her out of your mind?  I have and I know where you’re at.

But what can you do to win back someone that you’ve lost in a break up?

Well, first things first… if you want to win back someone, you first need to take a look at the words you’re using.

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When you say you want to win back someone you are implying that your ex is somehow on a pedestal and that you have to prove yourself to them.

I understand where you’re coming from, but you also have to understand that as long as you see your ex as someone who is above you that you have to prove yourself to, you will always be struggling to maintain a healthy relationship with them.

There is an old saying that says that the person in the relationship who cares the most has the least power.  And, although I don’t like to think of relationships as power struggles, if you are trying to “win back” someone like your ex, then you are constantly going to be in a place of less power.

This means that your ex will feel like they can go out and date whoever they want to, knowing that they can easily come back to you whenever they please.  You’ve become their “sure thing.”

I’m sure that’s not what you want to be to them.

You probably want things to be like they were in the beginning.  The two of you were madly in love with each other and both of you could barely contain your excitement to see each other again.

Well, if you want to recapture that feeling, you need to not only appreciate your ex (which you probably already do), but you also have to maintain your own self-respect, which will demand that they appreciate you as well.

So, first thing you want to do to “win back” someone (so to speak–I hope you understand the flaw in that wording by now) is to first act in a way that demands others to respect you.

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So, instead of acting a little bit desperate (like I did when I first got dumped), keep yourself from contacting your ex relentlessly and instead take the time you need to heal from the break up and find your own center again.  This will show your ex that you value yourself and that you won’t be there to bend over backwards for them.

The best way to do this is to take about one month and simply cut all communication with your ex.  During this time, focus on you.  Do things that you enjoy doing and that bring you closer to the person that you aspire to be.

As you do this, your ex will see that you indeed are a worthwhile person.  Don’t be surprised if this alone will help you save your relationship.

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