Q&A: Will I Get My Love Back?

will I get my love back

Q: My ex told me that they left me because my life was a mess.  If I work on improving myself will I get my love back?

A: That definitely can help.  However, you should never change yourself jut for another person.  That can often lead to feelings of resentment down the road.

Instead, change yourself for you.  If you can care enough about your own life to make the changes you need to in your life, then your ex may find that very attractive.

What is it that you can change?  Do you need to get off the couch and start getting in shape?  Or maybe you’re stuck in a dead-end job and you need to get serious about your career.  I don’t know what it is, but most people could benefit from making a few changes in their lives.

A break up is a good time to stop a reevaluate your life and jump-start any necessary changes you need to make.

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Q: Will I get my love back if I use some of those reverse psychology or manipulation tactics that I’ve seen out there?

A: Well, I can’t really vouch for the effectiveness of those sorts of things.  But I can understand the drive that would make someone consider them.

However, think about this for a moment.  Even if those sorts of things did work, would you really be happy in your relationship?

Probably not.  Personally, I would feel extremely bad knowing that my partner was only there by my side because I had somehow found a way to manipulate or trick them into staying in a relationship that they donÕt want to be in.

If you’re going to save your relationship, I say do it the right way.  Focus on the one person you can control–yourself.

Q: I’ve heard about this thing called the No Contact Rule where you simply don’t talk to your ex for a month.  They say that this will make them miss you and want to get back together with you.  Will I get my love back if I use the No Contact Rule?

A: I am a huge advocate for the No Contact Rule.  I personally believe that you can achieve a lot of personal healing when you keep yourself from contacting your ex for about one month.  It really gives you the time you need to work through your emotions and regain your sense of self.

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Plus, it also forces your ex to live the consequences of their choice to break up with you.  You shouldn’t use this to manipulate or trick them in to wanting you back, but it can really make them feel the gravity of what life is like without you and make them appreciate you more.

There is no set of rules that will always 100% get your ex back.  You just have to give it your best shot and focus on being the very best person you can possibly be.  If they choose to be part of your life again and join you on your journey, then that is fine.  But you must also be ready to accept the fact that they may not want to share their life with you again.

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